Online Dating With Patsy Blog

Here is the continued conversation.  Interesting how he tries to explain himself. Sam:  S: Have you got back now. or you still busy now ?  PATSY:  Hello   SAM:   opez: I think you have go and pick your daughter now   PATSY:  I already did.  My pies are cooking in the oven   SAM:  : Oh that's very  great   I hope is your daughter doing well ? PATSY: she is.  some of her friends are over PATSY so what time is where you are? SAM:  Thank God PATSY do you have a picture of you in your uniform?   SAM:  : Yes, I have it  and do you also have  pictures of you ? PATSY:   All of my pictures are on POF SAM:  : Oh okay PATSY:   Send me one of yours in your uniform.  You know us girls can't resist a man in uniform   SAM:  : I am about to put on my uniform and take some of me out side in our base and send to you now.. SAM:  : Can't you also take some with your phone and send to me here PATSY:  so will they do anything spec

Ok Okay, since I last posted I've had several more guys claiming to be in the army.  OMG!!!   Well today's guy, and this was one I messaged first on POF.  We sent a few messages back and forth and then asked about a chat place so I told him about Google hangout.  So we went there and exchanged messages.  These guys need to come up with new stories.  Well this time I got google hangout on my laptop and I copied the conversation to share it.  Here it is... [November 23, 2016 at 6:32:56 PM UTC-6] sam lopez: SAM:  Hi Pastsy sam • 6:32 PM     (patsyr9999@gmail.com): PATSY:  Hello. And it's Patsy.     (patsyr9999@gmail.com): So what do you do for a living? [November 23, 2016 at 6:34:40 PM UTC-6] sam lopez: SAM:  I am  U.S Army and you are? (patsyr9999@gmail.com): PATSY:  I am a secretary. Thank you for your service. [November 23, 016 at 6:36:18 PM UTC-6] sam lopez: SAM:  That's very good  working too.  [November 23, 2016 at 6:36:36 PM UTC-6] sam lopez: So

Okay, so here is my story from last week.   I got a message from a guy on POF and he was cute (they always are).   He sent me a message that he likes my pictures and wanted to get to know me.   He said he was in the Army stationed in Afghanistan and that he was retiring in a month.   Heard that before.   So I messaged him back and asked if he was really in the army or was he yanking my chain.   I told him that I heard from several guys on here who claim to be in the army and really aren’t.   So I waited for his response.   He said why would he have a reason to try lie.   So I gave him a chance but still didn’t believe him.   So I asked where he grew up in St. Louis.   He said he was born in Ohio and moved to St. Louis two years ago.   I asked how what was the time difference between Afghanistan and St. Louis.   I waited and waited.   No answer.   I went back to look at his profile and it was gone.   Actually he probably blocked me.   He didn’t know the time difference obviously

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I found some websites that has been very helpful in seeing if some of these guys are scammers.     The first one is: http://www.romancescam.com/check.htm This gives you steps to go through to check people out.   It is free.   This one you can upload the picture and if they it, it will pop up.   It will also pull up other pictures that are similar. http://www.scamdigger.com/picsearch.php   Here is a facebook page that is all about the military scammers. https://www.facebook.com/MilitaryRomances   This one shows pictures used most frequently in scams: http://scamdigger.com/pictures-used-in-military-scams/  

Then I moved on to Plenty of Fish (POF).  I have several POF stories but I have to tell you the one that just happened this week. So I go through the pictures and profiles and saw a guy who looked cute and had a decent profile.   So I figured what the heck I’ll send a flirt.   He responded back right away and we exchanged several messages over 2 days.   He said he was in the army special forces and right now he was stationed in St. Louis.   He is from Valley Park.   My first question I asked is what high school he went too.   He told me JFK High School.   So I checked and that high school is in St. Louis.   Okay, so that may be true.   As we chatted he mentioned be stationed here and I should have asked where, instead I said oh are you at Jefferson Barracks and he said yes.   My goof there.   Supposedly he has an 8 year old daughter who lives in KC and is being taken of while he is here.   He said his wife was killed in a car accident five years ago.   So a day later he says

The next site I tried is Our Time for people over 50.  I signed up for one month.  The second day I was on it my account got hacked.  Oh great.  So that Monday I was able to get it back by calling the company.  Nothing bad happened.  Our Time noticed something wasn’t right so they shut down my profile.  Kudos to them for catching that.  No personal info is in there so I don’t have to worry.  Just had to change my password.  One bad thing about Our Time is their sight is so slow and has lots of ads.  I got a message from a guy.  I messaged back.  His profile says he lives in St. Louis but he said he was in Atlanta GA for six months.  He makes jewelry.  He says it takes him all around the world because he personally delivers it.  Hmm.  Suspicious to you?  It was to me.  Of course I googled him and didn’t find anything.  My first suspicion is he was using a fake name.  I could be wrong.  Not likely though.  We exchanged a few more emails and he asked for my phone number.  NOPE!  No